Is it normal to be so lovable & not be able to hold it in?

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I'm always told that i'm very lovable, happy, bubbly, hipster-ish, etc. I feel that way on the inside too & sometimes I can't hold it in...like i'll just randomly hug someone.

I just feel the need to hug people & I LOVE to make anyone smile or be good. I've been told many times that I would be "blessed" but I don't really know what that means.

Anyways, I just love life. I'm very social & most people enjoy my company. It seems like a few people can't stand me just because i'm so happy all the time.. People don't understand it & I don't really know why i'm like this, but IDK if this is normal or not?

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  • Energy
    11 years ago | pl

    I love to be around people like that! I'm going through alot, and those are the type of people that actually help me out. My depressive buddies just be depressing with me. I'm trying my best to be an optimist.

    I think you'll have a couple of people hating on you but ONLY because they're jealous! Alot of people are actually unhappy....and they wish they could be happy.
    Some of them (like me) admire people like you, while others talk crap about happy people.

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    • Avant-Garde
      11 years ago | pl

      I hope you feel better:)

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    • PrincessLollipop
      11 years ago | pl

      Aww, Energy!! <3333 You totally seem like an optimist! I know you're going to get through everything you're going through & become an even stronger, wiser, & greater person then you ALREADY are. & if you ever need to talk, you have a friend in me. : )

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  • Ihadtomakeyetanotheraccountffs
    11 years ago | pl

    Doesn't matter if it's normal, nothing wrong with it.

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  • KK12
    11 years ago | pl

    err.. i feel happy for u wish i was like that but for some reason i always seem to have a feeling of guilt and hate but if i met u im sure u would be fine

    oh and its pretty normal

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  • disthing
    11 years ago | pl

    hipster-ish :/ do you mean hippy-ish?

    But yeah, I'm not like this, but I know some people very open and expressive, you're extremely extroverted, it's sweet but obviously those that are the opposite of you will find it difficult to understand or appreciate. Not everybody will get on with you.

    Be yourself, just be aware that not everybody will want your hugs and loving :)

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago | pl

    What does this have to do with being a "hipster"?

    You're just a lovable and extroverted person. There's nothing wrong with that, I think it's quite sweet:)

    I'm personally a introvert. I rarely hug people and if I do, then they're close friends.
    It's definitely normal, don't let people try to change you. Just continue being your lovable yourself:)

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    • PrincessLollipop
      11 years ago | pl

      Darn, when people call me a hipster, I thought it meant hippy. LOL, Fail.

      Anyways, thanks Avante! I think you're a sweet & you always have nice things to say! & even though you might not want me to do this...I have to. **HUG*** LOL

      : )

      xoxo

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  • jimcarrey
    11 years ago | pl

    i've never met a happy bubbly hipster. that's pretty funny.

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  • Rowlands69
    11 years ago | pl

    If you are a bbw .. Plus size lady , you must be very beautiful , you have everything a man want in a woman

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    I know someone like that I love her for that but I'm afraid to admit it. I envy her because shes like that but I always end up saying I hate her. haha maybe there live me they eny you because your amazing! :3

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    • PrincessLollipop
      11 years ago | pl

      Aww!<333

      Why do you say you hate her? LOL

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago | pl

        well when we first met she would say I love you to anyone like it was nothing and so when she said I love you to me I got real mad and ended up saying I hate you even though I didnt mean it. After that everytime she would say I love you I just had to say I hate you even though I didnt want to it would just come out. I wanted to stop but I couldn't because I cant say I love you like she can so I'd always reply I hate you. I don't think I hate her but I always maded it seem like I hated her. I think she could tell I didnt becaues we eventually became good friends. C:

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