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This will probably sound stupid but thats why i need the advice i suppose. im so jealous of everything that my partner does? i check up on him and look through his phone or even his web history, i know that its wrong! but i have bad trust issues and i don't know what to do in order for me to stop being like this! pls help me? :(
I'm the same, I get so jealous when I have a partner and check their facebook all the time and if he talks to some girl I get extremely jealous and want to delete them off his/her profile(I'm bi). But just gain self confidence and every thing will be all right. Know he won't cheat on you, and everything is all right.
Providing you've never found anything, start to relax. Think logically, what exactly would you do if you found he was cheating?
If you're very insecure you'd forgive him, and he would continue cheating - coz you're a doormat.
OR, you would finish with him.
You're in neither or those situations yet so don't go looking for trouble, it will always find you!!
Calm down, there's nothing more unattractive than a weak needy woman.
Love yourself. Do something for yourself and just trust your partner, nothing good can come out of your suspicious mind.
He'll start to hate you for being jealous all the time you crazy bitch. And it will slowly degrade your relationship
You either need to make up your mind to trust him and stop doing that, or leave him. Anything in between is just going to make both of you miserable and inevitably end up in a breakup anyway. Trust me, I've been there.
Um...ok...ur probably just alittle to worried and u should trust your partner don't be jelous either because u are your own person! <3Makayla <3Brittney
hi. thanks for all your comments but i think my issue is that i don't have any self confidence. we have two kids together but we are both young! we met when i was 14 we both went to the same school and now im 21 and don't feel the same about myself wen we first met. i have put weight on and with both the kids i feel drained all the time, i will try to stop doing it and trust him. i just feel he may go for some one younger and better looking than me, thanks for all the comments, x
Build your confidence Cherryberry and just think that he would be the biggest loser if he lost you and his lovely kids, if he messed about. Also console yourself that he's not going to be such a great catch with an ex-wife and 2 kids to support.
Get busy concentrating on yourself instead of checking up on him. Have a nice long bath, get your hair done - and try healthy eating if you want to lose some weight. He will pay more attention to you, if you start paying attention to yourself.
You never know, he might get jealous of you and wonder who you are meeting while at the park with the kids ;o)
Keep your relationship fresh pet coz it sounds like you love him dearly, so don't forget to tell him.
Good luck.
Jealousy often comes from feeling bad about yourself and always thinking your partner is going to cheat on you because you're not good enough, etc.
The first thing you need to do is to work out whether you're feeling like this, and what couple of things would most improve your self-esteem.