In some ways it is honey. When someone is in love, that person becomes your everything and your whole life revolves around them. But what i can also add about the fact that you're like that, you probably don't go out as much, lost your close friends and are with that person alllll day. This is not good at all. Becoming completely dependent on ANYTHING is a horrible thing, and can break you. I myself have never been like this.. i was in the most healthiest relationship in which we both gave each other space. Didn't hoover each other every single day and saw him as my best friend. Al though we aren't together now i can say that i have grown to care about him and thanks to those 3 years we are still able to say hello to each other..
Now in your case, imagine you guys break up or something? This is just him going somewhere for a while.. how sad does that make you feel? It's definitely not a good thing to be completely attached to him. If you guys have been together for a while now, it might be difficult to simply stop seeing him all day/everyday like the way you guys are now, but you should definitely explain that it might not be the healthiest decision. Be independent, be happy, be you. You don't ever want to be one of those girls that their lives revolves around their boyfriends, nobody wants to be their friends.. Enjoy life and enjoy your boyfriend at the same time. Remember that he should simply be someone who enhances your life style, not controls it.
Don't do this to yourself and smile for you have been blessed to have found your other half, but please do not make him your everything. Things DO get ugly eventually because every great relationship goes through this. You seem like a smart girl.. do whats best for YOU.
is it normal to be so dependant on someone
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In some ways it is honey. When someone is in love, that person becomes your everything and your whole life revolves around them. But what i can also add about the fact that you're like that, you probably don't go out as much, lost your close friends and are with that person alllll day. This is not good at all. Becoming completely dependent on ANYTHING is a horrible thing, and can break you. I myself have never been like this.. i was in the most healthiest relationship in which we both gave each other space. Didn't hoover each other every single day and saw him as my best friend. Al though we aren't together now i can say that i have grown to care about him and thanks to those 3 years we are still able to say hello to each other..
Now in your case, imagine you guys break up or something? This is just him going somewhere for a while.. how sad does that make you feel? It's definitely not a good thing to be completely attached to him. If you guys have been together for a while now, it might be difficult to simply stop seeing him all day/everyday like the way you guys are now, but you should definitely explain that it might not be the healthiest decision. Be independent, be happy, be you. You don't ever want to be one of those girls that their lives revolves around their boyfriends, nobody wants to be their friends.. Enjoy life and enjoy your boyfriend at the same time. Remember that he should simply be someone who enhances your life style, not controls it.
Don't do this to yourself and smile for you have been blessed to have found your other half, but please do not make him your everything. Things DO get ugly eventually because every great relationship goes through this. You seem like a smart girl.. do whats best for YOU.