Put yourself together girl.. Apparently this is the first time sth like this ever happened to you. Fell deeply in love and maybe be in a relationship for that long(?)
Well, look..it's not the end of the world. But u made it that way..u created the "need", of needing him around. DOn't let yourself fall into depression for someone, because you are the one who controls yourself and no one else. I know it's easier for me to say this, but i do know it's hard.
My personal opinion is to give him that break. You might need it as well, and u might learn something for it. I know that this is kinda "emo" but, every person we have in our lives, and how much we depend on them etc, at the end of the day we are all going to die alone. Be the master of yourself.. Your bf didn't chose to be like this. You put him in that position on your own and u r the one who is going to understand that even if u r with him, your life is not hanging from what he's going to say or do..
My friend was like that..i said her the almost the same thing but she didn't hear me. To be honest i didn't expect her to.. her bf one day left her and got depressed and she wasn't eating and didn't go out.. don't let yourself to be like that as well. My friend realized that after few months of depression, but u can realize it know. Love him, but don't give him everything.. Don't let him control u, especially when he doesn't even know that u depend so much on him
take care :)
is it normal to be so dependant on someone
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Put yourself together girl.. Apparently this is the first time sth like this ever happened to you. Fell deeply in love and maybe be in a relationship for that long(?)
Well, look..it's not the end of the world. But u made it that way..u created the "need", of needing him around. DOn't let yourself fall into depression for someone, because you are the one who controls yourself and no one else. I know it's easier for me to say this, but i do know it's hard.
My personal opinion is to give him that break. You might need it as well, and u might learn something for it. I know that this is kinda "emo" but, every person we have in our lives, and how much we depend on them etc, at the end of the day we are all going to die alone. Be the master of yourself.. Your bf didn't chose to be like this. You put him in that position on your own and u r the one who is going to understand that even if u r with him, your life is not hanging from what he's going to say or do..
My friend was like that..i said her the almost the same thing but she didn't hear me. To be honest i didn't expect her to.. her bf one day left her and got depressed and she wasn't eating and didn't go out.. don't let yourself to be like that as well. My friend realized that after few months of depression, but u can realize it know. Love him, but don't give him everything.. Don't let him control u, especially when he doesn't even know that u depend so much on him
take care :)