Is it normal to be so dependant on someone

we always think we need a man to depend on, as if we cant handel ourselfs. but little do we know sometimes guys see us as needy and we do not want to give the wrong impression because then not only does it make it easier for a guy to take advantage of us it also alows him to take us for granted. in other words, my advice to you would be to show that man who you really are, a beautiful independant woman:) good luck and i hope this helped.

Cut off his legs and keep him trapped in your basement. Then he'll never leave you.

Thankyou for your comments guys, ive ended it with him for definate now i nee4d to sort my life out before i can be in a realtionship and i will surely get there but slowly.. i cant see us ever getting back together as his family have made it become quiet nasty. i wanted to stya friends but they way i feel for him it feels impossible! as they say if u love them let them go :(

In some ways it is honey. When someone is in love, that person becomes your everything and your whole life revolves around them. But what i can also add about the fact that you're like that, you probably don't go out as much, lost your close friends and are with that person alllll day. This is not good at all. Becoming completely dependent on ANYTHING is a horrible thing, and can break you. I myself have never been like this.. i was in the most healthiest relationship in which we both gave each other space. Didn't hoover each other every single day and saw him as my best friend. Al though we aren't together now i can say that i have grown to care about him and thanks to those 3 years we are still able to say hello to each other..

Now in your case, imagine you guys break up or something? This is just him going somewhere for a while.. how sad does that make you feel? It's definitely not a good thing to be completely attached to him. If you guys have been together for a while now, it might be difficult to simply stop seeing him all day/everyday like the way you guys are now, but you should definitely explain that it might not be the healthiest decision. Be independent, be happy, be you. You don't ever want to be one of those girls that their lives revolves around their boyfriends, nobody wants to be their friends.. Enjoy life and enjoy your boyfriend at the same time. Remember that he should simply be someone who enhances your life style, not controls it.

Don't do this to yourself and smile for you have been blessed to have found your other half, but please do not make him your everything. Things DO get ugly eventually because every great relationship goes through this. You seem like a smart girl.. do whats best for YOU.

Put yourself together girl.. Apparently this is the first time sth like this ever happened to you. Fell deeply in love and maybe be in a relationship for that long(?)
Well, look..it's not the end of the world. But u made it that way..u created the "need", of needing him around. DOn't let yourself fall into depression for someone, because you are the one who controls yourself and no one else. I know it's easier for me to say this, but i do know it's hard.
My personal opinion is to give him that break. You might need it as well, and u might learn something for it. I know that this is kinda "emo" but, every person we have in our lives, and how much we depend on them etc, at the end of the day we are all going to die alone. Be the master of yourself.. Your bf didn't chose to be like this. You put him in that position on your own and u r the one who is going to understand that even if u r with him, your life is not hanging from what he's going to say or do..
My friend was like that..i said her the almost the same thing but she didn't hear me. To be honest i didn't expect her to.. her bf one day left her and got depressed and she wasn't eating and didn't go out.. don't let yourself to be like that as well. My friend realized that after few months of depression, but u can realize it know. Love him, but don't give him everything.. Don't let him control u, especially when he doesn't even know that u depend so much on him
take care :)