Is it normal to be so confused about sexual orientation?

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I'm 28 and thought I'd have all of this figured out by now. Sometimes I think I'm gay because I find guys attractive in a sexual way. But the idea of a relationship with a guy is not appealing to me in the least bit. I've been in long term relationships with women before, have been in love with women before, and enjoy sex with women but there's still this sexual attraction towards guys that I don't understand. Is this normal for other guys? I thought I might get honest answers on an anonymous thread like this. Thanks everyone.

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  • scrob3
    13 years ago | pl

    I get sexually aroused by guys at times too. I think that sucking them off or being sucked off by another guy would be ok but not too sure that being pounded in the ass by another guy is up my alley. I think sex would be ok but not a ltr.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    You ever consider the fact you could be bisexual?

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  • Polydactyl
    13 years ago | pl

    It sounds like you would not be happy with a male partner in the long run. You are entitled to think they're attractive, but I'd stick to women for relationships if I were you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    U are prolly bi. Though if u have a gf your best bet is to forget about being with other men sexually. Cheating is cheating. Or find a woman that will wear a strap on for you.

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  • gggg
    13 years ago | pl

    Yes and no...u might be bi, that's not a bad thing but that might be the case.

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  • x6tence
    13 years ago | pl

    yeah it is
    u might be bi aint that bad is it,
    jus go to gay bars getting da sax n then back to ur gf u never read gay mangas before? they r the shit haha
    i remember in school we had kinda clarification of facts our teacher got ppl who frankly said they were homos n bis
    one ov em was like 60ish n he said he figured out he was gay when he was like 52 i think
    he had grand childs n
    had his wife told everything bout it
    she was ok with that lol

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    ^ahahahahahah

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