I agree...if that feeling isn't there anymore and you both have confessed, it's not your responsibility to look after his needs over yours anymore.
You could help by maybe taking him to see someone who could give him professional advice, things like that.
But I agree if you have a solid job, save until you have enough to start renting, and build up from there. It's still easy to save money, and who knows you may just find some friends in the end who will have a positive effect on your life and help lift you up so that you have enough energy once again to spread your love.
LIving alone is one of the best things to put yourself in and you learn a lot about yourself.
And I wouldnt worry about the age difference, I know heaps of couples with that age difference and are happily married at the with the 20-30 year gap. Making sure you are compatible with each other is the main thing. Including values, anger, being able to talk, or the ability to be mentally strong in depressed situations.
Be strong and listen to your needs!
Is it normal to be so confused??!! I need help
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I agree...if that feeling isn't there anymore and you both have confessed, it's not your responsibility to look after his needs over yours anymore.
You could help by maybe taking him to see someone who could give him professional advice, things like that.
But I agree if you have a solid job, save until you have enough to start renting, and build up from there. It's still easy to save money, and who knows you may just find some friends in the end who will have a positive effect on your life and help lift you up so that you have enough energy once again to spread your love.
LIving alone is one of the best things to put yourself in and you learn a lot about yourself.
And I wouldnt worry about the age difference, I know heaps of couples with that age difference and are happily married at the with the 20-30 year gap. Making sure you are compatible with each other is the main thing. Including values, anger, being able to talk, or the ability to be mentally strong in depressed situations.
Be strong and listen to your needs!