Oh and did I tell you about how this school year he found out I was having sex and got super disappointed and tried to condemn me and shit. Obviously his religion is all against premarital sex and so he really got after me for doing the big no no. He assumed without me ever telling him, that I was christian as well because he knew my family was so he got quite bent out of shape.
Fast forward about 2 months and he meets his gf at church and they get along great and everything and he tells me they are waiting till marriage.
Then I come back one day he asks me about birth control, rather out of the blue. I tell him what I think and he says "so we should be fine?" and then when I ask who "we" is he spills his mf guts about how they started fucking and he tells me all how great sex is.
He says that the bible is "open for interpretation" about premarital sex and that if he and his gf are "really connected" and planning to get married that god won't mind them acrewing before they tie the knot.
I shake my head and change the subject because I don't want to make an enemy of my roomate who gives me rides everywhere and shit but in the back of my mind I was faceplaming so bad loool
I don't debate him on it at all. He straight up asked me if I thought premarital sex was wrong and I said yes just to not cause a beef. Is that what you woulda done sir?
I personally would have disagreed, nearly all my friends have had premarital sex and I would feel like I was slagging them off behind their back if I agreed with him.
I realise context is important though, in London it’s pretty unusual to hold such beliefs unless you’re very religious, but I get the impression that in some parts of the USA being a strict Christian is assumed.
Nowhere I've been loool. Very few solid Christian's and nobody assumes you are, at least where I've been.
I think the more relavant context is that me and him are good pals but he does not tolerate disagreement well. I'd bet my bottom dollar that if I disagreed, he spew on for 30 minutes about why hes right.
Part of me does wish I would have disagreed though, in retrospect that's what I should have done. If it were to happen again I would but I don't wanna pretend I changed my mind how cause then he'd just give me shit for that.
Is it normal to be single, 21 yo male want a relationship and watch porn?
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Oh and did I tell you about how this school year he found out I was having sex and got super disappointed and tried to condemn me and shit. Obviously his religion is all against premarital sex and so he really got after me for doing the big no no. He assumed without me ever telling him, that I was christian as well because he knew my family was so he got quite bent out of shape.
Fast forward about 2 months and he meets his gf at church and they get along great and everything and he tells me they are waiting till marriage.
Then I come back one day he asks me about birth control, rather out of the blue. I tell him what I think and he says "so we should be fine?" and then when I ask who "we" is he spills his mf guts about how they started fucking and he tells me all how great sex is.
He says that the bible is "open for interpretation" about premarital sex and that if he and his gf are "really connected" and planning to get married that god won't mind them acrewing before they tie the knot.
I shake my head and change the subject because I don't want to make an enemy of my roomate who gives me rides everywhere and shit but in the back of my mind I was faceplaming so bad loool
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“Premarital sex is wrong you lustful sinners! Well, unless I do it then it’s conveniently fine.”
I’m sure he can become a born-again virgin if it all goes pear shaped. Let’s just hope he’s putting something on the end of it.
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Yeah let's hope lmao
I don't debate him on it at all. He straight up asked me if I thought premarital sex was wrong and I said yes just to not cause a beef. Is that what you woulda done sir?
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I personally would have disagreed, nearly all my friends have had premarital sex and I would feel like I was slagging them off behind their back if I agreed with him.
I realise context is important though, in London it’s pretty unusual to hold such beliefs unless you’re very religious, but I get the impression that in some parts of the USA being a strict Christian is assumed.
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Nowhere I've been loool. Very few solid Christian's and nobody assumes you are, at least where I've been.
I think the more relavant context is that me and him are good pals but he does not tolerate disagreement well. I'd bet my bottom dollar that if I disagreed, he spew on for 30 minutes about why hes right.
Part of me does wish I would have disagreed though, in retrospect that's what I should have done. If it were to happen again I would but I don't wanna pretend I changed my mind how cause then he'd just give me shit for that.