Is it normal to be shy when im with the girl i love?

There's this girl in my year that I really like, I want to be with her all the time. She's smart, pretty, has a beautifle smile, and a great sense of humor! She often says hello to me, but I become all shy, and tighten up inside, and just scurry past. I cant stop thinking about her. I want to do something with her at the weekend but my nerves get the better of me. Can I have advice about how to maybe become more relaxed when Im around her!

Is It Normal?
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  • I agree. Plus it's totally sexy when a guy is shy to be in a girls presence!
    Just hide the shyness and act cool. ;)
    and say hi when she says hi.
    If you want to talk to her walk up to her. Saying hi is a good way to start the conversation. Take it slow and get to know her.
    When you walk by her give her a compliment. For example: "hey I like ur shirt" or " how are you? did you get a hair cut?"
    try to notice little things about her and be nice. Don't try to get her attention by being a jerk.

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  • It's normal. Just make sure you talk to her.
    There's this really quite guy who likes my friend. A bunch of rumors started going around, and there was alot of drama, but she went on a date with him anyway. He barely talked the entire time. Now she's really fed up with the whole thing and has no intrest in ever dating him.
    Moral of the story: It's ok to be shy, but TALK to her

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  • Make a list of everything she does that you don't like. Reread it constantly. Your interest will fall slightly but your confidence will increase.

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  • It's normal, and I tend to think it's really cute when a guy (or girl) is shy around me. I tend to be really shy as well with a guy that I like. It's just because you fear rejection.

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  • yeah totally normal, it stems from fear of rejection.

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  • of course you aren't going to be relaxed with her because you haven't had the chance to really know her, plus the rejection that might come. do you and this girl have any mutual friends that could help you out? maybe like a double date or a group of couples.

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