Is it normal to be sexually confused?

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Ok so im 18 & today i lost my virginity to a guy. We had sex in a forest. It hurt so bad that i told him to stop. He dropped me off back at home. & Now i have an uneasy feeling like i did something really wrong. I didn't even enjoy the sex. So would you consider me straight, bi, bi-curious, or gay?

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  • TP93
    12 years ago | pl

    Update I recently had sex w/ a guy again. I was comfortable but I didn't enjoy it, nor did I cum. So I think my sexual experimenting is done w/! lol

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  • MagickWithoutTears
    12 years ago | pl

    Were you topping or bottoming? Anal sex isn't for everyone, buy more than likely your first time will be painful. Why did you do this with this guy, out of curiosity,

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago | pl

      I was bottoming, & yes. It was out of curiosity, but that was my first time having sex w/ anybody.

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      • MagickWithoutTears
        12 years ago | pl

        Position can make a huge difference as far as pain goes (not sure if you can really get in a comfy position in the woods.) But anyways, sometimes it's hard to define gay, straight or bi-curious, though I'd say you're the latter, at least. Try experimenting with a girl to further attempt to figure out your sexuality.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago | pl

    Im a guy

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  • girrrl
    12 years ago | pl

    Just because sex hurt the first time doesn't mean u aren't straight. Don't be dumb. It hurts the majority of girls the first few times.

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  • Pisslan616
    12 years ago | pl

    I dont see how having a painful first experience of sex ties into the bi, straight, gay thing.

    First of all I dont think you put your sex in the story so we dont know if your a guy or a girl. No one can say if your are gay or not unless they know your gender.

    If you are suggesting that because you didn't enjoy sex with a guy then maybe you are not into guys. I don't think that is necessarily the case. maybe you just had a bad first experience.

    I think this story need slightly more detail.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago | pl

      I'm a guy

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