Is it normal to be sexually attracted to someone young

So my crush is 19 years old, and I am 20, almost 21. He and I are not talking anymore, but I can't help but wonder how awkward it must feel for him. He is a teenager while I am a lady (physically speaking.) I am curvy, tall and built, he's so slim, a bit my height and he is childish, cutely childish. Sometimes I think that I love him as a son for the simple reason that everyone says that, but though he has nothing sexually attractive, I am attracted to him in that area. It might be a matter of pheromones only, b-but. I like him, well, this is what freaked him out. I bet if he ever fantasized about me, he must have had imagined me raping him, because that is how much I am bigger than him. Ps, he is my classmate.

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Comments ( 32 )
  • killyourmind

    You're not even that much older than him.

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    • DuchessK

      If you say so..

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      • Angelandme

        Jesus Christ I thought people dropped the significance of +-1 or 2 year age gap I'm elementary school lol. Silly woman. But perhaps you are worried that you may look physically 24 or 25 and then it'd be understandable for the boy to be slightly shy or confused.

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  • edwininthematrix

    he could be older than you but still smaller. so you're not looking at his age but his body.

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    • DuchessK

      I see, thanks a lot.

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  • RoseIsabella

    What's the big deal? Seriously, the age difference is practically nothing. Trust me on this one, because I'm a real hard ass when it comes to age difference's so if I say it ain't much it's not much at all. The only issue is that he's physically smaller than you and that somehow males you uncomfortable in your head.

    You have to either get over it or move on, those are your options.

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    • DuchessK

      Thank you <3

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      • RoseIsabella

        You're very welcome.
        :-)

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  • the_codeMaker

    its completely normal. my girlfriend is 2 years younger and we are together form 15 months and we love each other a lot. wo too have fought about small things, but its all ok.
    You see, love is not at all about looks, its all about how you feel and care for each other.

    wish u a happy relationship ahead :)

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    • DuchessK

      Thanks a lot.

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  • MR.mr

    you said he's 19 not 9 right?

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    • DuchessK

      YES. 19, but he's so small..

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      • JonathanOo

        It's ok. Just let him in on how you feel about him and if he feels the same it will be great. He will get bigger you know. I'm sure your size won't matter to him

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        • DuchessK

          Thank you. I did, he didn't feel the same and I was wondering if it was for physical reasons.

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      • Amandaqaws12

        wtf, i feel like your the childish one. who cares of how he looks, if you like him then thats all that matters, not how he looks. gosh.

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        • DuchessK

          Ouch. I don't care, people do. I care about what people would accuse me of.

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          • Ellenna

            If you care more about that than him, do him a favour and move on.

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            • Amandaqaws12

              im with ellena one this

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            • Pseodonihm

              Ellenna you have a point. Love drives people to ignore all kinds of things. And OP is more concerned about what other people think. Now if he was fourteen or something that would be an issue.

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            • DuchessK

              Oh please, I am wondering for a reason. I clearly love him and I really don't care about his physical appearance, but what if he cares? and my question was mostly about the sexual attraction not about the size of him.

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  • urfather

    no problem...just chek out his dick

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    • DuchessK

      lol, really !

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  • Nevermeh31

    Your not much older then the other person so it's fine

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  • Ellenna

    Non problem as far as I can see

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  • mike1982

    I watch a 17 year old boy with a big dick fuck my 28 year old wife for three days this year at the beach home we rented. He had to had fucked her over 20 times the last day they fucked I had to kiss, lick and put ice on her pussy for the next 24hr. for the rest of that week I did not get her pussy Cindy was fucked out. I did get off on watching that boy 8in dick fuck Cindy all over that house

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  • WhiteTile

    Lol be rewl

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  • Oxo59

    Just so long they are above 26 yes of age, they is nothing wrong with fancying young lady's, just be careful about what you say to them or who you tell, I have always being sexly attracted to younger women and I do let some of them know, but in a kind of compliment

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  • Aries

    most of my life it's been very common for me to date or see women 8 - 15 years older than myself . I am 27 now and i still see no issue with it . What you're describing doesn't sound like an age difference , i would consider you the same age .

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  • Gypsyjason

    Umm I think your in the safe zone on this one unlike me see I have the problem where I'm in love whit someone who's 10 years younger now that's a problem she's also in love whit me we been having sex since years I'm 31

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  • Jimdaslave

    Just cuz

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  • Jimdaslave

    I'd kill ur geeks 🤔

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    • DuchessK

      what? why?

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