Is it normal to be scared to have sex with new boyfriend?

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I'm a girl and I prefer having sex anally. I've had sex before but I'm frightened to have it with my new boyfriend since his penis is really really big and I'm afraid it will hurt. What should I do?

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  • cathy22
    12 years ago | pl

    My boyfriend and I used a toy to get me used to his size. Just take it slow and let him push in a little at a time. It will work :-)

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  • cupcake_wants
    10 years ago | pl

    He needs to lick ur clit

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  • nilocrules
    12 years ago | pl

    That big, eh?

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  • rayst
    12 years ago | pl

    Why dont you have normal vaginal sex if you're afraid for your ass

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  • georgienne
    12 years ago | pl

    It'll hurt. Just go for it.
    Then you'll know if you like it or not.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    You won't know until you try.

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  • mumbum
    12 years ago | pl

    Omg! How big is it? And does size matter girls?

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  • Repetitive
    12 years ago | pl

    Communication is your best friend!!
    Sp bloody speak to him about it, let him know his huge penis is intimidating, LOL.
    I'm sure he'll understand and you both can work together to make it a comfortable and fun experience for the both of you! xxx

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  • --ash--
    12 years ago | pl

    Take a deep breath, plenty of lube & go for it!

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago | pl

    Dunno what the physical consequence can be on your ass. You might want to read into it. Might not be all fun and games, dunno

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago | pl

    You could get a series of toys that gradually get bigger so you can gently stretch yourself for a matter of speech. I don't know how big he his but I have taken pretty big toys up the wazoo with very little to no pain at all. Lot's of lube and a good stretching can go a long way. Then, if you do it regularly, less warming up is necessary; but let it go for a while and it can be all to start over again.

    I've never actually been with a guy and don't plan to but I might be opened to anal play with a woman if she's into it. Too big just seems like too much work for nothing to me atm, but there's no necessity there on my part; I use to enjoy big toys.

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