Of course it's normal. The old friendships, the good ones, don't scare you because they are solid and familiar and comforting. The reason you aren't making new female friends is simple- that one girl, who hurt you and terrorized you, was a NEW friendship. An unknown person, unfamiliar territory that went horribly wrong.
You are rationalizing the fear by subconsciously telling yourself that all new friendships will end badly, because the old ones did not and the one new friendship you did get managed to sabotage your life.
Is it normal to be scared of women even tho I'm a woman?
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Of course it's normal. The old friendships, the good ones, don't scare you because they are solid and familiar and comforting. The reason you aren't making new female friends is simple- that one girl, who hurt you and terrorized you, was a NEW friendship. An unknown person, unfamiliar territory that went horribly wrong.
You are rationalizing the fear by subconsciously telling yourself that all new friendships will end badly, because the old ones did not and the one new friendship you did get managed to sabotage your life.