It shouldn't be so planned.
Just do it when it feels right.
Try and get her in the mood, kiss her and hold her close.
If she doesn't want to do it, then leave it a day or two, and try again.
Gradually, you'll both get closer to actually doing it.
And it will be less awkward if you've been exploring each other's bodies before actually having sex.
I like this answer. I feel like when you try to plan out something special like this to happen it never works out as well as you wanted it to, because you're too focused on the expectations rather than taking the experience at face value.
I'd say just relax, slowly allow yourselves to become more intimate, maybe do some romantic dinners and movies, just little things that will give you more chances to be physically close, that way you can ease into it as you feel comfortable.
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It shouldn't be so planned.
Just do it when it feels right.
Try and get her in the mood, kiss her and hold her close.
If she doesn't want to do it, then leave it a day or two, and try again.
Gradually, you'll both get closer to actually doing it.
And it will be less awkward if you've been exploring each other's bodies before actually having sex.
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I like this answer. I feel like when you try to plan out something special like this to happen it never works out as well as you wanted it to, because you're too focused on the expectations rather than taking the experience at face value.
I'd say just relax, slowly allow yourselves to become more intimate, maybe do some romantic dinners and movies, just little things that will give you more chances to be physically close, that way you can ease into it as you feel comfortable.
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Yeah, and after a lot of time just having physical contact like holding hands and cuddling and stuff, sex won't seem such a huge jump.