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my girlfriend and myself are virgins and we are uber nervious on having sex when she arrives her point being she wants to do it but is scared because we are both virgins how do we comfect one another and btw shes the first relationship ive had beyond a lesbian friend that i went on a few movie dates with
| do we get comfy and make love on rug | 20 | |
| do we get comfy and make love on bed | 149 | |
| do we do movie and supper and then foreplay then sex | 188 |
It shouldn't be so planned.
Just do it when it feels right.
Try and get her in the mood, kiss her and hold her close.
If she doesn't want to do it, then leave it a day or two, and try again.
Gradually, you'll both get closer to actually doing it.
And it will be less awkward if you've been exploring each other's bodies before actually having sex.
I like this answer. I feel like when you try to plan out something special like this to happen it never works out as well as you wanted it to, because you're too focused on the expectations rather than taking the experience at face value.
I'd say just relax, slowly allow yourselves to become more intimate, maybe do some romantic dinners and movies, just little things that will give you more chances to be physically close, that way you can ease into it as you feel comfortable.
I'm unsure if the OP is male or female... but I voted option 3 because you should make your first time special.
But here's a silly sounding question for you guys... If two lesbians are virgins, and they have lesbian sex.... does that make them not virgins??? How does this work...? LMAO I sound so retarded. Probably because it's 5 am and I'm bored at work. :P
Combine the movie with cuddling. It's probably going to awkward, but if anything goes wrong just make a joke out of it and laugh it off.
Most importantly, USE LUBE! For the sake of the good Lord, use lube or you'll hurt her as well as being very uncomfortable.
I'm confused as to what gender you are... I think option three is best. Your first time should be special and memorable.
Does she live with u or stay the night at ur house? Do yall drink or any social drugs? Staying the night bodies close together might brightn the mood. Social drugs to calm ur nerves might make u less nervous. If u dont do drugs thats good but alot of holding her from behind with her bottom against ur crouch might excite u.
BUY LUBE.
JUST DO IT.
It will probably be awkward and kind of bad, since it's both of your first times, but for god's sake, lube up.
I made that mistake with my boyfriend. Both virgins. Hurt like a motherfucker.
Ok so... 1 do it when it the " mood" hits whenever that may be and it may be a little odd at first ( boy or girl) and chances are it might be aquward afterwards try not to get stuck in that aquwardness if you are guy watch a bit of porn see what kinda goes on *dont expect to do any of those positions depending on what you decide to watch* if girl again maybe watch a bit of porn and as a guy I would have much rather had the girl ride me then whatever the hell happened when I did it... Oh and for guy expect blood I have never had a virgin myself but I heard they are a "bloody mess"
Dont do it til it happens naturally.. make sure u eat her pussy plenty b4 u ever stick it in (and make sure u know wtf ur doing when u eat her pussy!! Learn what the clit is for heavens sake!)
Damn, he sounds like he needs to attend female anatomy 101. (this is why young guys as a lover, or worse, a virgen is the opposite of what I like) however since ur both on the same level its ok.
If he started reading sexology books and applied the techniques, u would discover what ur body is capable of!
I chose #2 mixed with #3 I guess? Lol I think you should go out, have fun, go back to your place and 'make love' in your bed (after much foreplay) and reassure her all the way that you could stop whenever she wants and tell her she doesn't have to do anything she doesn't want to :)
Nothing prepares u for losing your virginity, but everyone has to have a first time, don't they. As other posts say use lubrication. I must say congratulations to both of you for losing your virginity with someone you love. I lost mine with some randomer when I was 16 because my friend had had sex and I thought she was laughing at me cos I hadn't,yeah it's all very mellow dramatic, but we can't help how we feel, can we. so, I went out and found the nearest man to me. xx
Fucking hell, judging on your shocking English skills I can only assume that you are around 12 years old and therefore too young to be having sex. Kids these days.