I think a lot of people who've been raped feel afraid of sex. Someone took something that is supposed to be a loving act between two people who care about each other and used it in a traumatic situation, so naturally you are going to associate it with your trauma, even though you know logically that with your boyfriend, it's a different situation.
I think you should still see a therapist to help you work through what happened to you, but what you're feeling now is quite common.
Is it normal to be scared of sex cuz u were raped?
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I think a lot of people who've been raped feel afraid of sex. Someone took something that is supposed to be a loving act between two people who care about each other and used it in a traumatic situation, so naturally you are going to associate it with your trauma, even though you know logically that with your boyfriend, it's a different situation.
I think you should still see a therapist to help you work through what happened to you, but what you're feeling now is quite common.