If you were close and had a good relationship with him then I would go and do what the above poster suggested. You don't have to see him and it will be closure to you and help your mum with hers. Sorry to hear of your loss. I didn't go to my grandfathers funeral (I wasn't allowed as I was too young) and I regret not going to say goodbye and there's nothing much worse in life than regret
Is it normal to be scared of going to a chapel of rest / funeral
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If you were close and had a good relationship with him then I would go and do what the above poster suggested. You don't have to see him and it will be closure to you and help your mum with hers. Sorry to hear of your loss. I didn't go to my grandfathers funeral (I wasn't allowed as I was too young) and I regret not going to say goodbye and there's nothing much worse in life than regret