You don't have to "see" him lying in his coffin. All you have to do is go to the chapel, take some flowers, kneel in prayer if you're religious, or whatever. A lot of people choose not to look at dead relatives and the people at the morturary know this, so no one is going to force you. In other words, let peole know that you cared about this person and that he meant something to you. As you get older, more and more relatives and friends are going to die and it's time you accepted it.
Is it normal to be scared of going to a chapel of rest / funeral
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You don't have to "see" him lying in his coffin. All you have to do is go to the chapel, take some flowers, kneel in prayer if you're religious, or whatever. A lot of people choose not to look at dead relatives and the people at the morturary know this, so no one is going to force you. In other words, let peole know that you cared about this person and that he meant something to you. As you get older, more and more relatives and friends are going to die and it's time you accepted it.