Is it normal to be scared of breaking the hymen

My boyfriend and I are ready to have sex for the first time. It's completely mutual, we will be using precautions, and I am ready emotionally... except for being nervous about the pain of breaking the hymen. Is that normal? And please share your experiences in the comments.

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  • ashez

    I'm in the same situation.

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  • bigtoy

    Just about every woman ever with the exception of nuns and really ugly fat chicks have been there. Can't be that bad...lol

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  • hymen....?

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  • From what I know, it doesn't hurt that bad really, more like a sudden pain that lasts for a second or so. And there probs will be a bit of blood but not loads and loads.

    Just relax and you should be fine :)

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