I did read 50 shades of grey and though it was a terrible book. That's not what got me interested in BDSM in the first place. I think it's more because I'm not into the extreme stuff really. I don't want someone to push my limit with pain. I don't like pain at all and do not find it pleasurable during sex. I never have. I just like being dominated in the bedroom. I didn't see anything like that where I looked. I don't want to be a slave or sub 24/7. I would like it more just in the bedroom and I have limits that I do not and will not have pushed. I just didn't see anyone that had the same ideas as me....
Is it normal to be scared of BDSM?
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I did read 50 shades of grey and though it was a terrible book. That's not what got me interested in BDSM in the first place. I think it's more because I'm not into the extreme stuff really. I don't want someone to push my limit with pain. I don't like pain at all and do not find it pleasurable during sex. I never have. I just like being dominated in the bedroom. I didn't see anything like that where I looked. I don't want to be a slave or sub 24/7. I would like it more just in the bedroom and I have limits that I do not and will not have pushed. I just didn't see anyone that had the same ideas as me....