Their are varing different styles of BDSM, so some may only see one way of it and think harshly of it. Some people love dominaing or being dominated, to the point where it can be extreme and one just wants a sex slave or to be a complete slave submissive to whoever will dominate them 100%. These kinds tend to give BDSM a bad name imo. Really you and your partner should have good comunication and set ground rules for whats acceptable and what isn't for you both so neither is being used unwillingly, unless again your the kind of person looking to be a complete dominator or to be fully dominated. Some people in life will fully take advantage of you if you let them by not doing anything about it. I havent done any major BDSM things in real life but as long as it was mutual I wouldn't mind doing some things. You'd be surprised how many girls like being tied up, cuffed, choked, etc when having sex.
Is it normal to be scared of BDSM?
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Their are varing different styles of BDSM, so some may only see one way of it and think harshly of it. Some people love dominaing or being dominated, to the point where it can be extreme and one just wants a sex slave or to be a complete slave submissive to whoever will dominate them 100%. These kinds tend to give BDSM a bad name imo. Really you and your partner should have good comunication and set ground rules for whats acceptable and what isn't for you both so neither is being used unwillingly, unless again your the kind of person looking to be a complete dominator or to be fully dominated. Some people in life will fully take advantage of you if you let them by not doing anything about it. I havent done any major BDSM things in real life but as long as it was mutual I wouldn't mind doing some things. You'd be surprised how many girls like being tied up, cuffed, choked, etc when having sex.