I do not have any direct or personal experience with BDSM scene (which is probably almost non-existent in the country where I live?) but based on many sources which I have studied online I have got this feeling:
BDSM has become a form of fashion, life-style, ideology and hobby and just a small part of it is really authentic and my guess would be that many BDSM fans have pretty normal sexuality and are not into REAL sadism or masochism (in terms of authentic sexual paraphilia or sexual preference), so it is normal that you were interested in it in the beginning and then you realized that it is not what you really wanted...
It is just good that you are honest to yourself and do not pretend to be someone into BDSM just because it is so cool and modern in these days.
Is it normal to be scared of BDSM?
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I do not have any direct or personal experience with BDSM scene (which is probably almost non-existent in the country where I live?) but based on many sources which I have studied online I have got this feeling:
BDSM has become a form of fashion, life-style, ideology and hobby and just a small part of it is really authentic and my guess would be that many BDSM fans have pretty normal sexuality and are not into REAL sadism or masochism (in terms of authentic sexual paraphilia or sexual preference), so it is normal that you were interested in it in the beginning and then you realized that it is not what you really wanted...
It is just good that you are honest to yourself and do not pretend to be someone into BDSM just because it is so cool and modern in these days.