Is it normal to be scared of anal sex?

What is a good way to prepare my bf for anal sex? he is scared it won't be clean and he has never done it before. I sit normal? wha tis away we can prep? how can I get him to get at me good?

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  • DadsArny

    If you really want to do it properly, he should abstain from food for good 4-6 hours and only drink water. Once he has emptied all his stomach, then he should clean his anus's inside. (slowly pumping water in his anus and then pushing it out forcefully to clean properly. Repeating this till its totally clean.) Then make sure to use loads of lube, and there you go. It should be a delightful pleasure. :)

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  • EnchantedSpirit

    Thx guys I didnt know that milk? odd LOL I will mention it to him.

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  • whatsan

    Get the hole clean, get some lube. Get him in. And he'll be lovin it

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  • aussiewolf

    yeah they can reduce the feeling but you can get extra thin ones so it still feels like the real thing. maybe give it a go and see how he feels after. its a step. you gotta introduce different things slowly coz if you go straight in then your partner might say no to everything else you want to try.
    An enema is when you flush out the butt hole. they like to use milk in porn. some people get off on it, but not my thing.

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  • EnchantedSpirit

    condoms reduce feeling , I also want to just get him to losten up and try new things like finding my gspot and anal

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  • EnchantedSpirit

    enema what is that? oh ok I didnt know it would be clean, It is hard to comfort him.

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  • aussiewolf

    when i read the title, i thought it was going to be a girl who was scared, not the other way around. if he is worried about getting crap on his noodle, tell him to wear a condom.

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  • theRealDeal

    Use an enema first,dumbass! You're risking it if you don't!

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  • sgvman

    Oh, and btw, doggy style I think works best

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  • sgvman

    Hahahaha! Take it from a gay guy, anal sex is absolutley clean. Just use the bathroom, take a shower (be sure to clean your hole well), and it will be so clean that it will seem like he's ramming your vag!

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