Being adopted is a scary thing in its self, but to push thier last name on you is another. It is 100% normal to be afraid of being adopted and, in your case, be afraid of taking your "adopted" parents last name. (especially when it feels like its being forced upon you. I am the proud parent of a step daughter and I am in no way shape or form trying to push her to take my last name. That is something that you "her in my scenario" must decide on yourselfs, and for them to push it upon you like that is just asinine and morbid.
Is it normal to be Scared of adoption
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Being adopted is a scary thing in its self, but to push thier last name on you is another. It is 100% normal to be afraid of being adopted and, in your case, be afraid of taking your "adopted" parents last name. (especially when it feels like its being forced upon you. I am the proud parent of a step daughter and I am in no way shape or form trying to push her to take my last name. That is something that you "her in my scenario" must decide on yourselfs, and for them to push it upon you like that is just asinine and morbid.