Is it normal to be scared about having sex?

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i am 18 and i am virgin me and my boyfriend have now been together for about 2/3 months and everythings great he is also a virgin we started talking about having sex and planning it

but every time it comes round to it i make up an excuse not to and i think hes getting feed up with it and my friends keep saying maybe your not ready for it but i know i am.

i am just terrified i do something wrong i think

even though my boyfriend gets feed up with it if i told him i wanted to wait longer he would be totally fine with it but i feel if i keep wait and waiting i will never get round to doing it and then he will get bored and leave me eventually we do other thing just not sex

my friends also keep saying to me its only a big deal till its over and its just as easy as your first kiss.

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  • cupcake_wants
    10 years ago | pl

    Start playing with yourself thinking about his cock

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  • ccjigsaw
    10 years ago | pl

    I think the right moment hasn't arised! Just because you feel you are ready to have sex doesn't mean the right chance has presented itself. I would tell him "I'm ready, but I'd like to wait for the right moment" You'll know when it's right :)

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  • prasatko
    11 years ago | pl

    Personally, I think that you do not have to delay it any longer - "I am terrified I do something wrong"...no, don´t worry, you cannot do anything worse than refusing it, so no matter what you do, it will be still better than present state.
    This is just my personal perspective, of course I cannot tell you what you should or should not do. Your behaviour or feelings are probably normal for virgins, that´s why I have always preferred non-virgins as girlfriends (this is NOT meant as a personal attack on you, of course, everybody was/is a virgin for some time in their life, so it is natural).

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  • howaminotmyself
    11 years ago | pl

    Maybe he's full from all the feeding.

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