Is it normal to be restrictive?

People ln this website are miserable shit-bags when it comes to certain areas of advice and misery loves company.

I believe saving you virginity and not masturbating/resisting the urge to is a healthy concept and wish you the best of luck in finding that lucky man when the time is right.

restricting yourself would seem to be more distractive in this case since you say you want it and it's driving you bat shit crazy.

In our society, there's a tendency to put a lot of stress on people to be successful and be part of the "system." There's all this pressure, but what about being happy? Are you fulfilled? Being successful can be part of being happy, but overall I've found happiness is more important than success. Despite what you may believe, restricting yourself is actually doing you more harm than good.

I don't think masturbation would distract you too much. And be aware of setting limits. You're only getting out of highschool right?

If you keep this up you might never see a dudes penis till...ever.