The problem may be... whether or not they're really always whining or complaining. or if that's just what you're calling it.
From what you've written it sounds a bit like you only want to associate with your family when it's "good times". And when it's bad times you don't have the time of day for them because it's "stressful".
I mean sure if illness is really flaring up because of stress that's one thing, but if it's used as a reason to ditch family cos you don't want to be bothered when they're not all rainbows and sunshine... I can see how that would come off as being selfish.
Is it normal to be religious but unable to be sorry for being mean?
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The problem may be... whether or not they're really always whining or complaining. or if that's just what you're calling it.
From what you've written it sounds a bit like you only want to associate with your family when it's "good times". And when it's bad times you don't have the time of day for them because it's "stressful".
I mean sure if illness is really flaring up because of stress that's one thing, but if it's used as a reason to ditch family cos you don't want to be bothered when they're not all rainbows and sunshine... I can see how that would come off as being selfish.