Girls at school use their words to hurt other girls.
They become an expert at basically being bitches.
Once they get older they eventually calm down and stop picking on other kids.
The only option is for you to ignore them. By showing them you are not affected by any hurtful words they say to you.
Sadly you just need to harden up a bit. And either knock one of them out! Or just walk past them without a care for their childish teeny talk. (Possibly the latter would be preferred, at least to begin with)
I also sense that you just don't like your school. Not so much the girls, just everything about it.
School is about conforming and getting you ready for being an adult one day. The 'social' lunchtimes are just as important as your A grade reports. Somehow you will need to get involved in actually playing and being a social member OUTSIDE class. Your adult teachers know the other students well, they will know how you can 'get in' to the crowd (ideally the good crowd).
Also note, you ARE different (at least in your class). And therefore most will alienate you since they don't understand you. Once you open up a little, they will see that you are just a normal teenager yourself.
If all else fails, DON'T put up with the taunts for months! Or for longer than you can bare. Harassment can wear a teenager down, seek support, or change class or school. You might like a co-ed school better anyhow :) Thinking you may be pretty and the other girls are jealous, but no guy is there to build your confidence.
Is it normal to be rejected by your own ethnicity in school?
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Girls at school use their words to hurt other girls.
They become an expert at basically being bitches.
Once they get older they eventually calm down and stop picking on other kids.
The only option is for you to ignore them. By showing them you are not affected by any hurtful words they say to you.
Sadly you just need to harden up a bit. And either knock one of them out! Or just walk past them without a care for their childish teeny talk. (Possibly the latter would be preferred, at least to begin with)
I also sense that you just don't like your school. Not so much the girls, just everything about it.
School is about conforming and getting you ready for being an adult one day. The 'social' lunchtimes are just as important as your A grade reports. Somehow you will need to get involved in actually playing and being a social member OUTSIDE class. Your adult teachers know the other students well, they will know how you can 'get in' to the crowd (ideally the good crowd).
Also note, you ARE different (at least in your class). And therefore most will alienate you since they don't understand you. Once you open up a little, they will see that you are just a normal teenager yourself.
If all else fails, DON'T put up with the taunts for months! Or for longer than you can bare. Harassment can wear a teenager down, seek support, or change class or school. You might like a co-ed school better anyhow :) Thinking you may be pretty and the other girls are jealous, but no guy is there to build your confidence.
Or knock them out, whichever is easier :)