Basically, you're the person looking over the fence and thinking the grass is greener on the other side.
Until you experience someone who is extremely insecure and always making it your responsibility to manage their own insecurity, you have no idea what you're taking about. Clingy, insecure partners are the worse, because they don't know how to love themselves, so they expect you to boost their self-esteem with the relationship. This can lead to controlling your friendships, extreme jealousy, multiple emotional outbursts, guilt-tripping, and emotional abuse that start so innocently and playfully, that you don't even see how serious it is at first. Then it snowballs into something so stressful that you get buried in it, which leaves you the choice to dig yourself out or stay and freeze.
If you really want an insecure girlfriend and experience all this, why not talk to the OP after her relationship ends? Isn't she just what you're looking for?
IIN to be really uncomfortable with your bf hanging out with girls
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Basically, you're the person looking over the fence and thinking the grass is greener on the other side.
Until you experience someone who is extremely insecure and always making it your responsibility to manage their own insecurity, you have no idea what you're taking about. Clingy, insecure partners are the worse, because they don't know how to love themselves, so they expect you to boost their self-esteem with the relationship. This can lead to controlling your friendships, extreme jealousy, multiple emotional outbursts, guilt-tripping, and emotional abuse that start so innocently and playfully, that you don't even see how serious it is at first. Then it snowballs into something so stressful that you get buried in it, which leaves you the choice to dig yourself out or stay and freeze.
If you really want an insecure girlfriend and experience all this, why not talk to the OP after her relationship ends? Isn't she just what you're looking for?