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My boyfriend always looks at other girls when I am around. For example, we are walking in the store and he says, "Dang, that girl has a big ass!" Wouldn't you be jealous too?
Serene - i dont think you understand the difference between finding someone attractive or having feelings for someone. its just like finding Johny Depp or Hugh Jackman attractive even though you have a partner. just because you admire how they look, that doesnt mean you have feelings for them.
It is human nature to check out people ofthe opposite sex. Just trust him more he is just looking if he goes up and flirts with toher girls when you are around than you dump his ass. But there is nothing wrong with looking everyone does it i am sure you still find other guys attractive.
why would you get jealous when he is actually insulting them lol and he doesnt look at other girls just when you are around, he does it whether you are there or not because that is how human behaviour is. by the sounds of it he only says things when he sees an unattractive girl. he is smart enough not to mention when he finds another girl attractive. im sure one day you will grow out of this jealousy because you cant control where your partner looks. there is nothing wrong with looking, looking is completely normal. it doesnt matter that you are looking at the menu, as long as you have your meal at home.
dont you find other guys attractive? would you get upset with your partner if he started getting annoyed with you "just looking"?
also a lot of guys your age dont like going shopping so he has to amuse himself somehow. chill out, he is with you and the more jealous you act, the less of a chance he will stay with you.
To hell with that.
No offense intended, but seriously. It's a total disrespect issue. Shouldn't guys know better than to say stuff like that to their girlfriend?
This is one of the things that's making me rethink my relatiionship with my boyfriend. I hate it when he tells me he finds someone else attractive because I feel like it makes me inadequate in comparison.
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But then again, I consider myself to be a very jealous person, so maybe I'm not normal either.
Either way, this is based on what you feel, not what everyone else thinks about what you feel.
um rethink ur boyfriend. u deserve better and even if he is just joking id be very upset. u deserve smone that doesnt take their eyes off of you
Not really. The guy I'm with does that and I do that too. We both know we love each other but there are other people out there who are attractive or have certain features we feel we want to point out. He's not just my lover, hes my best friend. I mean, sometimes itll happen where a pretty girl walks by and I'll be like wow she had the prettiest eyes ever and he will be like yes, totally she could model. We're close and we respect each other but like to be honest too. =D
^Not necessarily. I don't find other men attractive. But that's how I am when I love someone. So she might not necessarily find other men attractive either.
TRY TO DO THE SAME WHEN HE'S AROUND...MAKE COMMENTS ABOUT OTHER BOYS AND IF YOU SEE A GORGEOUS MAN, FIX HIM AS YOU 'D LIKE TO FUCK HIM. HOW DO YOU THINK YOU WOULD BEHAVE? I GUESS HE 'D BE ANNOYED BY IT. I KNOW IT'S NOT THE RIGHT WAY TO SOLVE THE SITUATION BT I CAN'T FIDN ANOTHER ONE! TAKE YOUR REVENGE!