Is it normal to be prude?

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okay, i've never really been in a long relationship, and I think i'm going to be in my first real one. I don't know how to do anything sexually, i've made out before, but I don't know how to give a hj, bj, and if I were to get fingered I don't know what I would do or how to prepare for it. help please??

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Based on 8 votes (6 yes)
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  • Jeaneathean
    11 years ago

    Do not stress about it. If your partner is worth anything they will be kind and understanding.

    This does not make you a prude, by the way!

    I wish you well on the great adventure.

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    Sexual inexperience does not make you a prude.

    Just relax and enjoy each other.

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    • ccjigsaw
      11 years ago

      And I thought you were justsomejerk! Such good and helpful advice :)

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      • Justsomejerk
        11 years ago

        Jerk.....powers........fading..........un..able.....to...mock.....much.......longer.........

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  • BHolt
    11 years ago

    Ok, the best way I can help is by recommending some resources about sex, as this site doesn't really have one.. A better and larger forum for this is Reddit, the two subreddits I recommend are:
    /r/sex (http://www.reddit.com/r/sex) - here you can search for similar situations and ask for advice on how to give HJs and BJs, etc
    and if you're a teenager,
    /r/teenagers (http://www.reddit.com/r/teenagers)

    Reddit also has excellent FAQs:
    http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/xyq4t/rsex_faqs_first_time_having_sex/
    (note some of these FAQs may link to NSFW pages/images)

    Good luck and have fun.

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