It's pretty normal to have feelings for someone who is like that with you, and like dappled said, it sure does look like he's using FWB as a means of not having to commit. Has he had past girlfriends? How did it end up between them? Were those relationships long and committed? Or were they really short, and why? Maybe he really likes you but has commitment issues and is only stringing you along for his sexual needs. Either way, if you think you can stay as only an FWB with him and withstand him being flirty with other girls, power to you, but if you can't, I suggest you break off the this FWB thing before your feelings get worse and you end up doing something you'll regret.
Yes his past relationship lasted 5 years and they broke up a month before we got together. He says he's doing fine and is happy right now but Idk if he's truly over it b/c he told me right now, he doesn't want to put all his eggs in one basket. I wouldn't cheat on him but he's afraid of getting hurt again and it sucks for both of us! He says he doesn't want us to always have sex. He's happy just cuddling and watching a movie with me. Or playing video games. I'll give it until March. In the meantime, I suppose I'll just be looking around for other guys to date. Why is it soo hard?
Is It Normal to be possessive over an fwb?
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It's pretty normal to have feelings for someone who is like that with you, and like dappled said, it sure does look like he's using FWB as a means of not having to commit. Has he had past girlfriends? How did it end up between them? Were those relationships long and committed? Or were they really short, and why? Maybe he really likes you but has commitment issues and is only stringing you along for his sexual needs. Either way, if you think you can stay as only an FWB with him and withstand him being flirty with other girls, power to you, but if you can't, I suggest you break off the this FWB thing before your feelings get worse and you end up doing something you'll regret.
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Yes his past relationship lasted 5 years and they broke up a month before we got together. He says he's doing fine and is happy right now but Idk if he's truly over it b/c he told me right now, he doesn't want to put all his eggs in one basket. I wouldn't cheat on him but he's afraid of getting hurt again and it sucks for both of us! He says he doesn't want us to always have sex. He's happy just cuddling and watching a movie with me. Or playing video games. I'll give it until March. In the meantime, I suppose I'll just be looking around for other guys to date. Why is it soo hard?