idunno. i guess i dont understand why inheritance is so important to people. it only causes heartache and pain which is what you are going through now. i suggest that you accept that your grandfather changed his will and move on because its not worth stressing over something that you cant change.
its one thing to put your money and time into something and then being upset that its taken away from you but to not have it in the first place, its not really being taken away from you.
you shouldnt rely on other people to give you money anyway because as you know, situations change. you would appreciate it a lot more if you worked hard for your money instead of it being handed to you. maybe that is what your aunt wants to teach you. but i dont know her or the situation so i could be totally wrong.
I would except it but my Aunt took advantage of his dementia and that is wrong on so many levels. My Aunt hate my mom because she thinks my mom ruined her life. When my mom and my Aunt were younger my mom said that women don't have to get married; they can have their own life that's why my aunt blames my mom. She blames my mom for her not going to collage and believe it or not she blames my mother that she never has kids because somehow in her fucked up mind she thinks my mom took her fertility away. My Aunt hates my mom and so she started hating me for no reason what so ever and wants to punnish me.
I would just like to add that i am a generous person and most of the money that I got I spent on other people. It's really not about the money it's about the principle. It's wrong what she did.
Is it normal to be pissed off at this
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idunno. i guess i dont understand why inheritance is so important to people. it only causes heartache and pain which is what you are going through now. i suggest that you accept that your grandfather changed his will and move on because its not worth stressing over something that you cant change.
its one thing to put your money and time into something and then being upset that its taken away from you but to not have it in the first place, its not really being taken away from you.
you shouldnt rely on other people to give you money anyway because as you know, situations change. you would appreciate it a lot more if you worked hard for your money instead of it being handed to you. maybe that is what your aunt wants to teach you. but i dont know her or the situation so i could be totally wrong.
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I would except it but my Aunt took advantage of his dementia and that is wrong on so many levels. My Aunt hate my mom because she thinks my mom ruined her life. When my mom and my Aunt were younger my mom said that women don't have to get married; they can have their own life that's why my aunt blames my mom. She blames my mom for her not going to collage and believe it or not she blames my mother that she never has kids because somehow in her fucked up mind she thinks my mom took her fertility away. My Aunt hates my mom and so she started hating me for no reason what so ever and wants to punnish me.
I would just like to add that i am a generous person and most of the money that I got I spent on other people. It's really not about the money it's about the principle. It's wrong what she did.