Is it normal to be pissed off at this

Long story short, my aunt tricked my grampa and wrote a new will for him giving her control of everything. Grampa died and now Aunt...

Ok my Aunt decided to keep the money that my mom and I inherited from my grandpa and keep it herself. My mom hasn't talked to her in a few months and out of the blue she calls and tells my mom that she sold my grandpa's stamp and coin collection for 4000$. She offered my mother half of the money.

Well the stamp and coin collection were supposed to go to me. She sold my shit and is offering my mom half. After my mom hung up after their conversation my mom told me she would give my the half that my aunt was giving her. I exploded, it's bad enough that my aunt refuses to give me the 10k I was supposed to inheret for collage, it's bad enough that she sold MY shit and offered the money to my mother instead of me, but to only offer her half really pissed me off. I told my mom that that was unacceptible to only get half of the money that my Aunt made on my stuff. My mom said that she would give me the rest of the money that I should have gotten out of her own pocket.

I'm glad that I am getting the rest of the money but I am pissed beyond my own belief that it is my mom who has to give it to me. I told my mom that I didn't want her to and that I wanted my Aunt to give it to me but my mom said that there was nothing that would persude my Aunt to give in.

What I want to know is this Normal that even if I am getting all of the money that was mine that I am pissed that half of it came out of my moms pocket?

Is It Normal?
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  • what a bitch

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  • Why would you be pissed off? I'de be as jolly as Santa.

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  • if it were my situation in my family then i wouldnt talk to the person and move away. seriously that fucked up and seems to me ur aunt is a bitch. dont like it, THAT'S TOUGH! < most badass countdown television show ever

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  • she have children?

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  • ^^

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  • If you're so concerned about it why are you calling it shit, it makes it seem like all you care about is the money, which is really pathetic.

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    • I don't just care about money, but frankly my aunt is a greedy bitch, my grandpa also left me 10k for my education and she took that too.

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  • idunno. i guess i dont understand why inheritance is so important to people. it only causes heartache and pain which is what you are going through now. i suggest that you accept that your grandfather changed his will and move on because its not worth stressing over something that you cant change.
    its one thing to put your money and time into something and then being upset that its taken away from you but to not have it in the first place, its not really being taken away from you.
    you shouldnt rely on other people to give you money anyway because as you know, situations change. you would appreciate it a lot more if you worked hard for your money instead of it being handed to you. maybe that is what your aunt wants to teach you. but i dont know her or the situation so i could be totally wrong.

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    • I would except it but my Aunt took advantage of his dementia and that is wrong on so many levels. My Aunt hate my mom because she thinks my mom ruined her life. When my mom and my Aunt were younger my mom said that women don't have to get married; they can have their own life that's why my aunt blames my mom. She blames my mom for her not going to collage and believe it or not she blames my mother that she never has kids because somehow in her fucked up mind she thinks my mom took her fertility away. My Aunt hates my mom and so she started hating me for no reason what so ever and wants to punnish me.
      I would just like to add that i am a generous person and most of the money that I got I spent on other people. It's really not about the money it's about the principle. It's wrong what she did.

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  • In with aussiewolf too. And I'd also like to add that as much as the situation sucks...the fact that you'd allow your mother to give you that money put of her own pocket makes you as greedy as your aunt. Sounds like your mom got screwed in the deal too and now she's gonna lose even more money because you won't stop moaning about it. Pure greed.

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    • I told her that i didnt want her too like a million times but she won't listen.

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  • shouldnt you be more upset that your grandfather passed away? its so sad when people only care about money when family passes. you should be ashamed of yourself because you are just like your aunt.

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    • My grandad died 3 years ago. This is just happening now.

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