Is it normal to be physically and emotionally unable to masturbate?

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I am a 19 year old female, and I literally cannot masturbate. I am not religious, so it has nothing to do with that, but it seems like everybody is able to do it except me.

Even if I am super aroused, as soon as I even think about doing it, I "dry up" and it is painful even if I start while aroused. On top of the pain/sudden un-arousal, I burst into uncontrollable crying fits and get really nauseous.

Is that normal?

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Based on 9 votes (2 yes)
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  • quentari
    10 years ago

    I'd go see a therapist if I were you

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Do you have hands? Then go for it you numb cunt.

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  • LostFounder
    10 years ago

    It could be internal feelings of inadequacy. Because masturbation is a normal thing, you are inclined to do it. But once you actually start, you may be bombarded by feelings of sexual worthlessness, a sentiment so strong, you may believe you aren't even worth the pleasure of masturbation. Hence the crying and nausea.

    You should love yourself.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Apparently, it's normal for some women to have difficulties masturbating to climax; but, the crying and nausea is not at all normal. What are you so upset about?

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    • anonymousqs
      10 years ago

      I honestly have no idea.

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Then therapy from a licenced psychologist is probably good for you.

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