The older you get, the more you realize that love transcends romantic relationships, and good friendships can exist between people of the opposite sex. As long as he never had any kind of romantic relationship with a girl of his past that he talks to, and if he had a bond somehow with some one before you two were even together ESPECIALLY, and it's not sketchy, just a dandy ol' friendship, then stop being a shithead, and give him all the love and trust you'd expect from him. If it bothers you that much though, and you feel like you're "taking shit" from him in one way or another, that shows no doubt that your relationship has room to grow. With each problem there are new levels of understanding to find. That's what makes growing together as a couple spectacular. Believe in you two. You're a team. Much love, from a fiancé in a serious relationship going on three years. The thoughts will linger and torture you until you've come to a point where you'll annoy yourself. You'll solve these problems eventually. The inner thoughts "haunt" until you investigate, but don't worry, it's all relatively (para)normal.
This makes me hopeful, thank you. I appreciate the advice, it's helped broaden my perspective on the situation. I need to keep working at it, he's worth it. :)
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The older you get, the more you realize that love transcends romantic relationships, and good friendships can exist between people of the opposite sex. As long as he never had any kind of romantic relationship with a girl of his past that he talks to, and if he had a bond somehow with some one before you two were even together ESPECIALLY, and it's not sketchy, just a dandy ol' friendship, then stop being a shithead, and give him all the love and trust you'd expect from him. If it bothers you that much though, and you feel like you're "taking shit" from him in one way or another, that shows no doubt that your relationship has room to grow. With each problem there are new levels of understanding to find. That's what makes growing together as a couple spectacular. Believe in you two. You're a team. Much love, from a fiancé in a serious relationship going on three years. The thoughts will linger and torture you until you've come to a point where you'll annoy yourself. You'll solve these problems eventually. The inner thoughts "haunt" until you investigate, but don't worry, it's all relatively (para)normal.
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This makes me hopeful, thank you. I appreciate the advice, it's helped broaden my perspective on the situation. I need to keep working at it, he's worth it. :)