If you had some kind of lonesome childhood or something or still are lonely that'd make sense.
Give them a break and try to hang out with more strangers. Keep it diverse and don't focus all of your attention on them.
If you can't contact them anymore then it's possible they aren't even good friends (I guess I'd have to know your situation in more detail though) so you should make new ones.
sorry for the lack of info but i'm not sure what else to say, but I don't get out too often and i'm kinda shy about meeting new people, I try to back off when they ask. I normally do anything they ask really, even if its a "never message me again" type of thing :/
Okay then to put it bluntly, you're most likely a doormat and not very interesting.
If you've got the money, get out more often and push yourself to be extroverted. If you think it's uncomfortable to be out then punch yourself mentally and get over it.
If you've got any hobbies you can participate in at home then try and find people with similar interests and discuss it with them. If you want to be interesting, then don't just be the listener, be the talker.
Even meeting people online works. I never fucking get out but I tend to get into deep conversations or opinionated rants with lots of people online that can turn into friends.
I've only had one irl person I done this to, i'm always trying to strive for what should be the best for me, and thanks for putting it bluntly lol, if only it was as easy as it sounds lol
Is it normal to be openly obsessive towards "friends"?
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If you had some kind of lonesome childhood or something or still are lonely that'd make sense.
Give them a break and try to hang out with more strangers. Keep it diverse and don't focus all of your attention on them.
If you can't contact them anymore then it's possible they aren't even good friends (I guess I'd have to know your situation in more detail though) so you should make new ones.
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sorry for the lack of info but i'm not sure what else to say, but I don't get out too often and i'm kinda shy about meeting new people, I try to back off when they ask. I normally do anything they ask really, even if its a "never message me again" type of thing :/
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Okay then to put it bluntly, you're most likely a doormat and not very interesting.
If you've got the money, get out more often and push yourself to be extroverted. If you think it's uncomfortable to be out then punch yourself mentally and get over it.
If you've got any hobbies you can participate in at home then try and find people with similar interests and discuss it with them. If you want to be interesting, then don't just be the listener, be the talker.
Even meeting people online works. I never fucking get out but I tend to get into deep conversations or opinionated rants with lots of people online that can turn into friends.
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I've only had one irl person I done this to, i'm always trying to strive for what should be the best for me, and thanks for putting it bluntly lol, if only it was as easy as it sounds lol