IIN to be 'one of the guys', have a crush and not want to be feminine?

I have a friend in a similar problem; guys think she's one of the guys, most people think she's a lesbian, but she's really a hetero tomboy with a loving heart. The problem is that when these tomboys ask for advice, people pounce on them and try to turn them into preppy princesses.
I'd say sneak in a little femininity into your life. Got a big man's Metallica shirt? Wear a form-fitting girl's Metallica shirt. Short hair and no makeup? Grow out your hair and DON'T wear makeup or wear makeup and KEEP your hair short. You don't need to a Kardashian to win a man over, but embrace a little femininity and then a man will find your tomboy traits alluring. Like if you knew how to make cookies (<---a girly thing), but you were a kickass Halo Player or Hockey player...he'd be like SCHWING!!