Is it normal to be obsessive

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I tend to be very obsessive. I got really obsessed over my counselor and told her a I would kill her if she could no longer be my counselor. If I couldn’t have her no one else could. Her supervisor freaked out and wouldn’t let her be my counselor anymore. She was not allowed to have any contact with me. I would never actually kill anyone I was just expressing how much I liked her. Because I couldn’t talk to her at her work I looked up her home phone and address. She got a restraining order. The judge ruled three years. Everyone I tell acts like it is a big deal about what I did. It doesn’t feel like a big deal to me. I am happy she has a restraining order because for 3 years she will remember me. I am going to contact her in 3 years. What really hurt me is she said she would be there to be happy for me and that I could stay in contact with her. If it was up to her she would still be my counselor. She lied to me. Her telling me these things is what made me so attached to her. No one thinks what she told me is a big deal. They only think what I did is a big deal. I dreamed about her for two months straight and I still cry over her when something reminds me of her. Tell me is this normal.

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  • supaflyafro
    13 years ago | pl

    if u were my girlfriend and was this obsessive over me we would have plenty of sex. dont take this as offensive. take it as a compliment. just saying

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    No it is not normal, it is nasty and irresponsible. You issue death threats causing someone to live in fear for their life and think that everyone else is over reacting?

    Take responsibility for your own bad behaviour and learn from it.

    You've blown any reason for her or to ever feel safe around you, & now you plan to stalk her. So you've learned nothing.

    Leave the woman alone.

    Apologize for your behaviour in a letter to her supervisor. Make it clear you will not have any contact.

    If you haven't, go get help with your health issue elsewhere.

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    • prettygirl88
      13 years ago | pl

      She understood that I was not treatening her she even told her supervioser that it was not a threat. He wouldn't listen. If she had not told me she wanted to stay in contact with me I wouldn't have tried to find her. Why is that not a big deal that she told me that. If she hadn't I would not feel such a strong earge to contact her later.

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  • Jen118584
    13 years ago | pl

    Not normal, you obviously pushed her away by being so obsessive and in three years she will have forgotten about you. The minute you contact her again she's going to get freaked out all over again. People don't generally take kindly to being told that you're going to kill them. Especially someone who is obviously mentally unstable. Respect her wishes and leave her alone. You need to think about how your behavior appears to other people.

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  • amili
    12 years ago | pl

    You are a psycho!

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