Is it normal to be obsessed after learning my 'straight' boyfriend of

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After 3 years together, I found out that my boyfriend was having sexual relations with other men. Catching and pitching, sucking, etc. Apparently everything. He says it was a sexual addiction, and just part of the progression (that started with porn when he was a teenager). So far I've found 20+ men he's been with, and the more I dig, the more I find. He doesnt come clean unless presented with specific questions.... claims he can't remember everything because there was so much. I love this guy, we are both in therapy.... but i have extreme waves of depression/anger, and happiness because I believe we truly are in love. I'm so confused.

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  • Keepsake
    6 years ago | pl

    I think it's time you dump his cheating ass. If someone loves you, they will not cheat on you.

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  • Handyman
    6 years ago | pl

    Leave the gay for other men, get yourself a man.

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  • darausnicht
    6 years ago | pl

    I don't understand these guys. I am shocked by their lack of grasping reality. I am bisexual and there are bi women out there that would compete and brag like bros over who could be with more.

    I know these guys never tallk to me because I ask them why they do this kind of thing with people who are not aware until after the fact with dating. I knew with the one who almost got me in one of these the moment a few gay men wrote some lewd flirty messages.

    Two out of three men like this I would ask why don't they see bi women if they want a better chance at being in poly type relationship. Both wanted "a family" and were liars and had gay friends they would bash bi guys as "bullies like those football players in the teen movies. Called them freaks.

    I have compassion but U see this too often to not like the LGBT and the so-cakked bi community claim it's "a negative stereotype that is so rare, it barely happens."

    They can pit women on us with the "well, he never deals with discrimination".

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  • bfus
    6 years ago | pl

    Dump him before you get an STD

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  • genericusername
    6 years ago | pl

    He's probably still cheating... I've been in his position but I cheated on my boyfriend with multiple guys. Typically if you stay and forgive him easily he's going to keep doing it.

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  • ginoray
    6 years ago | pl

    I read Marilyn Monroe a boyfriend pair one handled the upper and one the the lower stuff.
    I would have sucked all of them off to be with her just one time !!
    I am straight.

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