I'm glad to hear it bc my gf's still sort of nervy with me. She was much worse for the first mth or so and comes out with a lot of weird stuff that really confused me , still is.
Funny she's quite a strong girl in life and she's a tough cookie too but some of the things that get out come in a form of cracks or as if she doesn't care or defensive.
She admitted she often just blurts out of the top of head and doesn't mean it the way it comes out.
She wasn't like that when we were just friends before for a few mths. My sister reckons but then it didn't matter to her where as now it does so she's guarded and become a bit self conscious.
I'm finally starting to get it and so now I've found my new patients instead of getting pissed of and taking cracks the wrong way has made a huge difference with her.
This might be in my head but I'm sure she feels more secure with me now bc I've stuck with it and she's starting to believe inside that maybe I really do love her after all- which I do .
Maybe she was evene testing me subconsciously as a few people suggested , not sure but with the changes I'm seeing just since my new attitude , loven her to bits.
Is it normal to be nervous to talk to the guy you really like?
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I'm glad to hear it bc my gf's still sort of nervy with me. She was much worse for the first mth or so and comes out with a lot of weird stuff that really confused me , still is.
Funny she's quite a strong girl in life and she's a tough cookie too but some of the things that get out come in a form of cracks or as if she doesn't care or defensive.
She admitted she often just blurts out of the top of head and doesn't mean it the way it comes out.
She wasn't like that when we were just friends before for a few mths. My sister reckons but then it didn't matter to her where as now it does so she's guarded and become a bit self conscious.
I'm finally starting to get it and so now I've found my new patients instead of getting pissed of and taking cracks the wrong way has made a huge difference with her.
This might be in my head but I'm sure she feels more secure with me now bc I've stuck with it and she's starting to believe inside that maybe I really do love her after all- which I do .
Maybe she was evene testing me subconsciously as a few people suggested , not sure but with the changes I'm seeing just since my new attitude , loven her to bits.