Is it normal to be nervous to bring kinks up to gf?

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  • Yes. I was nervous at first with my wife and she is still nervous with me.

    You have to say what you're in to tactfully and with subtlety. If you blurt out that you want to tie her up and spank her ass until she submits to your giant cock it's not going to go well and you're just going to turn her off. Say something like "a lot of women like being controlled. Is that what you want?" Or if she likes being dominate you shouldn't say "you want to treat me like your sub bitch? That will make me want to fuck your sexy ass". You should say " I like a strong and dominate woman". She will get the idea if you take it slow, I promise.

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