Is it normal to be more sure of myself when i'm alone? but....

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Okay so when I'm alone I know exactly how I feel about things. I feel sure of myself and maybe even happy. Like I know who I am and all that korny crap. Lol. Anyway to the point..Though I feel this way when I'm alone I wish I had a group of friends with me..however once I get a chance like maybe hanging out with some old friends, I'm totally different. I'm quiet and keep my thoughts to myself. I try to speak up, but my mind goes blank. Is it normal I want to be with people but when I am I'm not who I want to be?

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  • searching4me
    12 years ago | pl

    That is how I used to feel. But I recently discovered you just need to be sure of yourself, and comfortable with who you are and crap...I hope that made sence. >.<

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  • party_in_my_pants666
    12 years ago | pl

    @yuminsanity
    Get a life

    Dude just be yourself man

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  • Neophilia
    12 years ago | pl

    Yea, it's normal. I've felt this also with my bestfriends and everyone I meet. (including family members). You see when your alone you can think whatever you want and do whatever you want but you'll soon crave for people to talk to since it often gets boring being by yourself. With friends you can't say what've you want because your afraid of them judging you, you don't want them to think your a freak, but you want to say and do what you wanna do. You should get more confidence in yourself, or meet new people who have the similar or different thoughts as you. In my case, I wouldnt even care. As long as I'm having fun, I don't feel the need to share my every thought with my friends. (and I have a lot of thoughts)

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  • NothingxCrazy
    12 years ago | pl

    Welcome to MY world. Just need to be more comfortable around your friends or whoever it is you're with. I find myself like that only when I meet new people.

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  • YumInsanity
    12 years ago | pl

    Evolution doesn't need people like you, so it makes you quiet when your around potential mates. Your only option is to give up and die in silence

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