Is it normal to be mean to people that aren't attractive?

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  • dom180
    11 years ago | pl

    Urgh... people like this just annoy me so much. I would just love it if nobody even cared how anyone else looked; that "ugly" wasn't even a word; that there was no "heirachy of appearence". If there was no percieved "good" or "bad" of appearence, just acceptence, it would be such a great thing.

    When people even say that someone else is ugly, even if it isn't in a mean way, it just makes me so sad. Argh! I've made myself angry! Or rather, society and the media has.

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    • bananaface
      11 years ago | pl

      How would you judge a person then? On humour, or personality?

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      • dom180
        11 years ago | pl

        I'd try to avoid judging people on anything as much as possible. I subconciously judge people on personality, but I even try and control that as much as possible. Humour goes down well as well, of course, but if you are shallow I'll still see through you.

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        • bananaface
          11 years ago | pl

          I try not to judge people either, rather unsuccessfully though:L I don't think there' anything wrong with making judgements about people as long as it doesn't affect your behaviour towards them tbh:)

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          • dom180
            11 years ago | pl

            I think the same. It is impossible to not to make judgements; it is human nature. All we can do is prevent it from affecting our behaviour.

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