Is it normal to be married but want another woman secretly

lmao "sacred marriage" fake as fuck, bet you never even had a gf before.

Normal, but not good. Having feelings isn't in itself bad, but dwelling on thoughts of the woman, thinking about her in sexual ways and letting her take the 'top spot' in your affections, is. If marriage is sacred (and it is!), the only thing to do is to try and get rid of the feelings for the other woman. Look it up on YouTbe, WikiHow, etc. - whatever you need to do, do it.

Feelings are very fickle. Say you divorced your wife and had this new woman instead. You'd probably get feelings for yet another woman, with time. It's most likely not the woman producing these feelings in you - it's you. We are creatures of habit. Don't follow your 'heart'. You don't need to be religious to see that people's hearts are normally neither pure nor omniscient, and can often lead them to all kinds of dangerous, unhappy and morally repugnant places when unchecked. I am sure every serial killer would say they followed their heart...

I would say it’s normal because it’s so common but normal doesn’t mean good. You should divorce your wife if you’re not happy with the relationship. I wouldn’t want to be with someone who wants someone else and I wouldn’t want to be with someone if I wanted someone else. It’s unfair to both of you.

Then divorce your wife and start slinging your dick.

Normal.