I understand what you're saying, but it's still a lame complaint. Being approached in a scary way is one thing, being approached "too much" in one night doesn't make much sense to me. Maybe its cause I'm a guy that I don't understand this.
I'm not saying you shouldn't feel creeped out by someone who is a creep. But just getting attention from the opposite sex isn't a bad thing. Plenty of people wish they could get that.
This attitude is more and more why I don't bother really talking to women.
I hope I'm not coming across as a man-hating bitch. Believe me, I love male company.
I'm just trying to explain (albeit badly) why a woman might dismiss a guy right off the bat. I've had experiences where aggressive drunks think I've led them on just because I've engaged in conversation. Some people may feel they have to be a little cold because they're worried they won't be able to get rid of someone.
As for the "too much" thing, it wasn't a great example and it's not something that happens all the time. I'd like to think I can usually tell whether someone is just being friendly or if they're after sex. If there's too much of the latter, I might start to get short with people.
The OP sounds like a guy who should be avoided but I am genuinely sorry if people like myself make you feel like you can't talk to women. Unfortunately a lot of creeps do hang out at bars and I've become a bit too wary.
Is it normal to be mad when a girl rejects you?
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I understand what you're saying, but it's still a lame complaint. Being approached in a scary way is one thing, being approached "too much" in one night doesn't make much sense to me. Maybe its cause I'm a guy that I don't understand this.
I'm not saying you shouldn't feel creeped out by someone who is a creep. But just getting attention from the opposite sex isn't a bad thing. Plenty of people wish they could get that.
This attitude is more and more why I don't bother really talking to women.
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I hope I'm not coming across as a man-hating bitch. Believe me, I love male company.
I'm just trying to explain (albeit badly) why a woman might dismiss a guy right off the bat. I've had experiences where aggressive drunks think I've led them on just because I've engaged in conversation. Some people may feel they have to be a little cold because they're worried they won't be able to get rid of someone.
As for the "too much" thing, it wasn't a great example and it's not something that happens all the time. I'd like to think I can usually tell whether someone is just being friendly or if they're after sex. If there's too much of the latter, I might start to get short with people.
The OP sounds like a guy who should be avoided but I am genuinely sorry if people like myself make you feel like you can't talk to women. Unfortunately a lot of creeps do hang out at bars and I've become a bit too wary.
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No, I definitely understand it much better now. Thanks for explaining it more thoroughly.
As it happens I do agree with you, especially this last explanation.