Is it normal to be mad at people who had my girlfriends nudes?

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There are some people in my classes (college) who I guess I can say are my acquaintances. Apparently my girlfriend sent pictures to one guy a while ago before we dated and he sent them to his friends. One of them recently sent me her pictures not knowing she was my girlfriend. I played dumb and asked where he got it from and he said it was the same dude. Am I wrong for being pissed off that he is still sharing her nudes around even though it was before me when she sent it? The issue isn't that it was sent to her but that he is disrespecting her still and currently sharing them. Am I wrong for being on the verge of fighting dude for disrespecting both of us still?

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  • megadriver
    5 years ago

    Guy's an asshole, kick his ass...
    I'd smash his face in if he shared any revealing pictures of my girlfriend.
    Sharing a girl's nudes with everyone is just low. You are shaming the girl, making her look like a slut. Guy needs to be taught a lesson. Just make sure nobody catches you in the act, cause bribing the police ain't fun, I'll tell you that.

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  • charli.m
    5 years ago

    Re read this when I wasn't half asleep. I misunderstood your comment and I apologise. Next time, if you want to reply to something he said, hit reply to them, not another person in the thread. He doesn't see what you said, and I just assumed your comment was directed at me, instead of him.

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  • ImJustDone
    5 years ago

    sounds like he deserves a good old fashioned as woopin.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    I would advise to avoid conflicts. Your girl sent the pics, she is the one to be blamed for this. Those guys don't even know that you are pissed at this, since you played dumb. Imagine someone sending you a nude randomly and then not having any idea why you return with a rain of fists at him. Don't be stupid, don't go to jail or worse.

    If she is now a good girl, treat this as a mistake and move on. If she is still giving clues of being immature and sending nudes quite easily, be careful, you might be in danger. But in any case, violence is the wrong choice. It will lead you to completely unnecessary troubles. Hope this helps.

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    • charli.m
      5 years ago

      "It's her fault that someone she apparently trusted chose to abuse that trust."

      Was it a bad decision? Clearly. But she's not the one that chose to violate someone else. That's a far worse "decision".

      You're vile.

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      • [Old Memory]
        5 years ago

        ok

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    It's wrong to share them to begin with so yes. It's normal.

    Go kick his ass.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Period. Thanks for the input bro.

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  • EnglishLad
    5 years ago

    A girl sending nudes with her own consent to a guy who wants them is fine. Said guy then disrespecting that consent by sharing those nudes with other guys without the girl's direct permission is not fine. Same in reverse. Kick that guys arse, he deserves it.

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  • cipro
    5 years ago

    It's ur girlfriend's fault. Why did she send nudes in the first place?

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    • charli.m
      5 years ago

      Presumably they had some form of a connection in which she felt safe exposing that side of herself. He abused that. Her decision hurt no one, in and of itself. His decision doesn't hurt him, but it can hurt her.

      How can she be blamed for his bad decision?

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  • jack_shephard
    5 years ago

    Who won't get mad.

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  • Xshot12
    5 years ago

    Unless she said to the other guy that he can send them around, it is illeagal

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