Is it normal to be like this?

I always have guys hanging around me. I am tall, athletic, tan, blonde hair blue eyes long legs and I wear tanks every day cuz I live in Miami. Boys are always calling me sexy and I can't take it anymore! I like some of them but others slap my butt and grab my boobs! They also pull my shirt straps and bra straps. It feels like they are trying to rape me or something. One time they ripped my shirt off and touched me. I feel really uncomfortable and I hate it! Help me!

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  • roxylinds

    Here's an idea... Stop dressing like a slut.

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    • daydreamer394

      Why?

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  • T1mbo

    Well avoid dressing provocatively (though it doesn't sound like you are really but the tank tops might even be too much)
    It must suck to be attractive and not be able to enjoy the pride that should come with it. And maybe you need some pepper-spray and possibly when you go to the beach bring someone with you who will act sort of as bodyguard, who won't let guys get too close to you unless you want them to.

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  • If u realy want 2, u shud try to dress a little less atractivly.

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  • Just hit them. But punch them, don't slap them.

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  • supermanifyanowatimean999

    IIN to get erection while reading this?

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    • smith1345

      thats extremely funny and very inappropriate.

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  • kdblueeyes

    Look I don't care how you dress. Even if your walking around in your underwear guys have no right to touch you like that. Next time they do slap them and tell them they do it one more time your calling the cops. It's sexual harrassment and assult. The comments you can't do much about so try ignoring them. Maybe see if there isn't one perverted guy there to date he could tell the guys to back off. Also talk to the school about the problem they might be able to help you.

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  • squeegela

    Wow! Wrinkly, sexy, tan, pale, too many guys, and wrinklier than Grammy! You, my dear, have one seriously f*cked up situation!

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  • MercedesBenz

    On another thread didnt you say you werent tan, didnt really live where there was alot of sun, and had wrinkles at 22? I didnt know they homeschooled at 22??? It was the post about "wrinkles at 22".

    My apologies if im incorrect but this sounds like a big contradiction.

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  • jhollow

    You've got to be a teenager!! Adults usually don't have this problem, because they have confidence and a backbone to stand up for themselves.

    No self-respecting lady would let guys touch her if she didn't want to be touched.

    You probably are sexy, but allowing them to get away with those inappropriate things is wrong. If you like it... then let them do it... if you don't... slap the hell out of them and tell them to stop.

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  • MicrosizeMe

    Suck up some pride and wear something less "attractive" and take a little heat.

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  • TotalFreak

    You are not tan, atheletic and blonde. you are probably just a teeny bopper who made all this up.

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    • daydreamer394

      Why?

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  • JuliusE

    Not making any sense, your full of shit

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  • sac66064

    FAKE.

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  • Grow up. Stop dressing like a whore. And tell the guys to leave u the fuck alone. And if it don't stop tell someone. Don't feel bad to get them in trouble. Their getting themselves in trouble by touching u n crap.

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  • afghanistudd

    Umm I'm pretty sure u made this up. No girl let's tht happen to them. Even my 14 yr old cousin would defend herself, act mature n give your body some respect.

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  • daydreamer394

    Is this still happening?

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  • AbbyJBoydstun2

    Sadly, guys are normally like this. However, by law they aren't allowed to. Stand up for yourself. Honestly, I think if guys are ripping my shirts and touching my boobs I'd be getting a restraining order....

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  • T1mbo

    recommended for you: "How to love" cover by Justin Bieber or Lil' Wayne.

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  • mathwiz6

    Go ahead as long as u use protection

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  • goldndust23

    Find some new friends!

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  • No matter how old u r, u can talk to ur mom.

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  • grumpybarbie

    Hahaha

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  • lol Dress a little more moderately.

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    • daydreamer394

      Why?

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  • grumpybarbie

    I suggest taking up martial arts! And by the way, no one has the right to touch you. Try laying a charge next time and you would be surprised how fast that shit stops!

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  • Mel

    Lmfao Mercedes!!!! Good catch! I couldnt remember why her name was so familiar!! Yeah 22 w wrinkles, who doesnt live where theres much sun...yet is SO sexy guys cant keep their hands off her in Miami! Ahhaha.

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  • Haha no it will say the name of my college cuz I will graduate with everyone else but I didn't say I was getting homeschooled. I was thinking about it.

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  • Thanks lizbit I'll try that but I haven't gone shopping in awhile since money is tight but I'll go. Thanks

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  • I am in college for a very long time and my uncle is a professor so he can homeschool me

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  • Lizbit

    Hate to say it but if your tanks are tight you may be giving off the wrong impression. Try wearing t-shirts on occasion and see if some of the unwanted attention dies down. Some guys tend to be visual idiots who just don't think before they act.

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  • This is an account of many different ppl so idk what my friends are posting. Lol we share one account. Were being "Eco friendly" by "carpooling" well were all using the same account cuz we all wanted the same username

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  • MercedesBenz

    "IIN to have wrinkles when I am 22" is what its called.

    And the thread says, "i live where theres not much sun."

    Doesnt sound like Miami at all. Its 24/7 sunshine.

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    • jhollow

      Mercedes, you aren't too smart when you type... Are you?

      How can there be 24/7 sunshine in Miami, FL?

      (24hrs a day/ 7 days a week)... ya know, it does get dark there... Dumbass!

      Bottom line, this girl needs to grow up, and take control of both her emotions and her surroundings.

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  • katherine1

    slap them in their face and call them a little bitch.

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  • I sometimes hit them and then they stop

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  • I try to tell them to stop and I tell my parents but it never stops! I'm thinking about homeschooling. I yell at them to stop and everyone gets involved but I want to handle this myself.

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  • MercedesBenz

    Jhollow-- way to go! Made you feel like a big grown up huh?

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  • MercedesBenz

    Will you degree say "University of Uncle"? Yeah, no.

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