Is it normal to be left alone after all?

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I know this sounds stupid..

I'm a kind of person who always listens to the other's story, keeps a secret, can stay up all night just to make other's feeling comfortable.. I have so many friends since forever but then they all leave me behind without a reason. I didn't do anything wrong to them and I'm pretty sure of it. They all leave me like nothing's happened after all the laughter we shared.. People these days are mostly users :|

PS: Sorry if there's a wrong grammar. BTW, I'm a part Japanese and half Filipino

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  • NothingxCrazy
    10 years ago | pl

    Don't expect too much out of people. Sometimes you can do all you can to help them and they leave you in the dust. I've had this happen many times by the people closest to me. I almost feel like they don't think they're good enough to be in my life and they feel like failures. It's very upsetting to me because it's almost like they didn't even consider my feelings in the situation.

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  • howaminotmyself
    10 years ago | pl

    Have you called any of these old friends just to say "hi"? Don't be too hard on them, life can become busy and it's easy to get sucked in and become a hermit. Breaking the cycle of silence can be hard, but not impossible.

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  • Mando
    10 years ago | pl

    You sure? Maybe you need an all-nighter talking to some of these people about how you feel for a change.

    Anyway, I think if you haven't, then reach out and be assertive about what these friendships mean to you.

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  • Aboe112
    10 years ago | pl

    I do think it's the use-and-dispose-when-done style you see a lot nowadays.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago | pl

    You are their rock good for you.

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