She's not so much kicking you out since she's moving too , she's just not taking you along with her . A 2 bedroom costs more than a 1 bedroom and the deposit is usually equal to the rent . Also if you move out later she might not be able to afford the rent of a 2 bedroom or find or even want a roommate . She might think your able to be on your own and you'll do better in life the sooner you stand on your own 2 feet with out her helping you . She may be ready to start the next part of her life with out being mom as one of the biggest parts of it and is seeing the time being ripe to do it now with all the other changes going on. She may be overwhelmed with all the things that are happening because she lost her job and is only able to take care of her self right now and feels you can make it with out her . Try to sit down with her and let her know how you feel and ask her how she's dealing with all the changes that are and will be happening . Hope you both can find away to make this change move your relationship with each other to a adult level and come out stronger then before .
Thank you for your reply very thought out. But my mother is still being a mom. I have a 15 year old sister. Also my mom and i are not very close, we are two different people with different ways of doing things and different ways of thinking. We nevee really butt heads because she doesnt confront people, while i do. so if i sit down with her to talk, it wont go far and she wont reveal much. Its just who she is.
is it normal to be kicked out directly after i turn 18?
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She's not so much kicking you out since she's moving too , she's just not taking you along with her . A 2 bedroom costs more than a 1 bedroom and the deposit is usually equal to the rent . Also if you move out later she might not be able to afford the rent of a 2 bedroom or find or even want a roommate . She might think your able to be on your own and you'll do better in life the sooner you stand on your own 2 feet with out her helping you . She may be ready to start the next part of her life with out being mom as one of the biggest parts of it and is seeing the time being ripe to do it now with all the other changes going on. She may be overwhelmed with all the things that are happening because she lost her job and is only able to take care of her self right now and feels you can make it with out her . Try to sit down with her and let her know how you feel and ask her how she's dealing with all the changes that are and will be happening . Hope you both can find away to make this change move your relationship with each other to a adult level and come out stronger then before .
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Thank you for your reply very thought out. But my mother is still being a mom. I have a 15 year old sister. Also my mom and i are not very close, we are two different people with different ways of doing things and different ways of thinking. We nevee really butt heads because she doesnt confront people, while i do. so if i sit down with her to talk, it wont go far and she wont reveal much. Its just who she is.